weightloss update

well i havent posted that im trying to lose weight, but i am. ive gained a lot of weight since i started dating my boyfriend 5 years ago. ive never really been skinny but i was thinner. so my goal is to get to a size 5 or 7. and i was a size 13 and now im at a size 11 so ive gone down a size.. ive lost some weight but i dont see it when i look at myself other than in my face, im at the point now that none of my pants fit but refuse to buy new ones.. so im waiting for the heat to wear some dresses that i have that will always fit..lol. i really need to push now since my birthday is in 2 months!!!! lol. so well see :)